These days,
it’s common for women to pass another man’s child to another man
without him being the father of the baby. Due to this, there’s a way of
checking if you’re truly the father of the child and that’s by
undergoing a DNA test.
But unfortunately, the test is not that cheap and aside that, we’ve had many cases where fathers have taken responsibility of children till an older age before finding out they are truly the fathers.
The case of Mr. Odartey Lamptey, a renowned Ghanaian footballer and Femi Kuti, the eldest son of Fela Kuti and a famous Nigerian musician are typical examples. So the question we ask is, why must you wait till the child gets to that age before checking? Well! we are sure the issue boils down to trust. If men had a way of instantly being able to tell this is not my child and later confirming with a DNA test, this wouldn’t be an issue at all.
Unfortunately, many people do not know there’s a way of telling right away even before going for a DNA test, hence the reason we have these problems.
Fact is, there are simple ways that can actually strike doubts and will instantly prompt you to have a DNA test and so we wish to bring to light, 5 ways you can easily tell a child is not yours even before going for a DNA test.
Blood Type
Knowing your blood type is not a common practice in Nigeria, but this is very important and not only to know yours but that of your partner. If you have this at the tip of your hands, you can easily determine if a child is yours or not.
So how do you do it?
For example, if the mother’s blood type is O and the alleged child is B, the father can only have blood type B or AB for the daughter to be related to the father.
This is basic biology and usually when a child is born, all this information are written on the child’s hospital form and so as a father, it’s important to read this information. While going through, you can easily tell if the child is yours or not if you know your blood type and that of your partner and can easily do the checking. If it doesn’t tally, you can ask for a DNA test to be sure.
Genetic Behaviour
Genetically, babies pick certain behavioural traits from either the father or mother and as the baby grows and you watch closely, you can easily notice some characteristic behaviour that is common with you.
A very good example is your posture when you sleep. Many people do not really take note of this or do not see anything special about this but actually it doesn’t come by chance. This is nature’s own way of telling you the baby is really yours.
You will be surprised to know the baby sleeps in the exact posture you sleep. If you’re the type who loves to sleep face up, you will realize the baby also sleeps face up, if you sleep flat on your belly, you will realize, the baby does the same, if you sleep side ways, you will realize the baby will sleep side ways too. To determine this, you can ask your partner to take a picture of you and the baby when sleeping and you will marvel at the outcome.
If the baby doesn’t show anything close to what you or the mother does, then you have every right to confirm with a DNA test.
Resemblance
This is one of the many reasons people go for a DNA test and so if you realize the baby doesn’t resemble you or the mother in any way but a stranger at church or in the neighbourhood, why wait till the child gets to 20 years before going for a DNA test.
As a man, it’s very very important to know the menstrual cycle of your partner, to easily determine when she’s safe and when she’s not safe. You should also have a good knowledge about how a woman gets pregnant and what really goes on in there and the timing.
So if you had sex 6 months ago and she comes to tell you she’s 3 months pregnant, instantly you should be able to tell the baby is not yours.
Also, there are certain information you have at the tip of your fingers, like the sperm being able to survive for 5 days and so if you should have sex even in her safe period and she has 5 days to her unsafe period, then there’s no way you can refuse such a pregnancy because you had sex in her safe period. Also, you should know some women are unique and can get pregnant even during their menstruation, so you can do a DNA test if you’re in doubt, but don’t be surprised if the baby is yours. The best and safest period is 5 days to her next menstruation and so if you have good knowledge about her cycle, there’s no way she can lie to you.
Also if you’re at the hospital at the time of delivery, if the baby is truly your child, you can tell the cry of your baby from all the other babies at the hospital.
We all have spiritual connections with our children and those who meditate and know how to listen to their inner being, can feel this and so if you don’t feel anything at all towards the child, then you have every reason to confirm with a DNA test.
But unfortunately, the test is not that cheap and aside that, we’ve had many cases where fathers have taken responsibility of children till an older age before finding out they are truly the fathers.
The case of Mr. Odartey Lamptey, a renowned Ghanaian footballer and Femi Kuti, the eldest son of Fela Kuti and a famous Nigerian musician are typical examples. So the question we ask is, why must you wait till the child gets to that age before checking? Well! we are sure the issue boils down to trust. If men had a way of instantly being able to tell this is not my child and later confirming with a DNA test, this wouldn’t be an issue at all.
Unfortunately, many people do not know there’s a way of telling right away even before going for a DNA test, hence the reason we have these problems.
Fact is, there are simple ways that can actually strike doubts and will instantly prompt you to have a DNA test and so we wish to bring to light, 5 ways you can easily tell a child is not yours even before going for a DNA test.
Blood Type
Knowing your blood type is not a common practice in Nigeria, but this is very important and not only to know yours but that of your partner. If you have this at the tip of your hands, you can easily determine if a child is yours or not.
So how do you do it?
For example, if the mother’s blood type is O and the alleged child is B, the father can only have blood type B or AB for the daughter to be related to the father.
This is basic biology and usually when a child is born, all this information are written on the child’s hospital form and so as a father, it’s important to read this information. While going through, you can easily tell if the child is yours or not if you know your blood type and that of your partner and can easily do the checking. If it doesn’t tally, you can ask for a DNA test to be sure.
Genetic Behaviour
Genetically, babies pick certain behavioural traits from either the father or mother and as the baby grows and you watch closely, you can easily notice some characteristic behaviour that is common with you.
A very good example is your posture when you sleep. Many people do not really take note of this or do not see anything special about this but actually it doesn’t come by chance. This is nature’s own way of telling you the baby is really yours.
You will be surprised to know the baby sleeps in the exact posture you sleep. If you’re the type who loves to sleep face up, you will realize the baby also sleeps face up, if you sleep flat on your belly, you will realize, the baby does the same, if you sleep side ways, you will realize the baby will sleep side ways too. To determine this, you can ask your partner to take a picture of you and the baby when sleeping and you will marvel at the outcome.
If the baby doesn’t show anything close to what you or the mother does, then you have every right to confirm with a DNA test.
Resemblance
This is one of the many reasons people go for a DNA test and so if you realize the baby doesn’t resemble you or the mother in any way but a stranger at church or in the neighbourhood, why wait till the child gets to 20 years before going for a DNA test.
Menstrual Cycle Calculation
The reason why we have so many men taking care of other men’s children is because, many men do not care about woman’s anatomy and what goes up in their system.As a man, it’s very very important to know the menstrual cycle of your partner, to easily determine when she’s safe and when she’s not safe. You should also have a good knowledge about how a woman gets pregnant and what really goes on in there and the timing.
So if you had sex 6 months ago and she comes to tell you she’s 3 months pregnant, instantly you should be able to tell the baby is not yours.
Also, there are certain information you have at the tip of your fingers, like the sperm being able to survive for 5 days and so if you should have sex even in her safe period and she has 5 days to her unsafe period, then there’s no way you can refuse such a pregnancy because you had sex in her safe period. Also, you should know some women are unique and can get pregnant even during their menstruation, so you can do a DNA test if you’re in doubt, but don’t be surprised if the baby is yours. The best and safest period is 5 days to her next menstruation and so if you have good knowledge about her cycle, there’s no way she can lie to you.
Spiritual Connection
This is one thing many people take for granted because we always want facts on paper, but naturally, every father and child have a spiritual connection and you will be surprised to know that you can be far away and can still tell your wife has delivered. This is possible because you can sense it in your being.Also if you’re at the hospital at the time of delivery, if the baby is truly your child, you can tell the cry of your baby from all the other babies at the hospital.
We all have spiritual connections with our children and those who meditate and know how to listen to their inner being, can feel this and so if you don’t feel anything at all towards the child, then you have every reason to confirm with a DNA test.
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