Please Stop Calling Successful Young Ladies Prostitutes.. .See Why!

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Gone are the days of our forefathers, great-grand parents and grandparents when women's education were not relevant, women were seen to be a commodity  that can be bought. Trow back to my grandmother's tales of how she was unable pay her debt and the wealthy man requested that her first daughter should be given to him in exchange of the money, in-addition, my father also told me the story behind his late marriage was because, while he was growing up one has to be financial stable before getting a wife being that women's financial well been were seen as the men's responsibilities,In their days women were known to be just housekeepers, most of them were clueless of what education meant, their lives were all about farming, going to the stream, caring for their younger ones and helping their mothers in house chores and when they are of age, their parent gives them out in marriage to whom they deem fit, they don't even have choice because some were betrothed at birth. Continue after the cut...


Things has changed, this is 21st century the digital age, development has come to stay in Africa and  has opened the eyes of many people, everybody is struggling and working hard to secure a good future irrespective of their sex.  

Thessalonians 3:10-12 says If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat. For we hear that some among you walk in idleness, not busy at work, but busybodies. Now such persons we command and encourage in the Lord Jesus Christ to do their work quietly and to earn their own living.

Wealth is not a racist, no preference nor hierarchical order there was never a law of were riches should be or not, it all depend on you

Honestly it hurts when i see websites talk about a woman's achievement especially young ladies and some readers will be quick to call the person a slot, the only question that pops up to me is "where on earth do these people live" To think that someone is somewhere toiling day and night, struggling to make ends meet and some group of people are quick to call her names that's inappropriate forproverbs14:23 says in all toil there is profit,but mere talk tends only to poverty. ladies are more independent now than the days of my fathers and please don't forget that what a man can do a woman can do better, there was never a law that men should always be the breadwinner of a home. To aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, work with your hands, as we instructed you, so that you may walk properly before outsiders and be dependent on no one.Thessalonians4:11-12 

Education is not gotten from the classroom alone however exposure is also part of it and that is what most people are lacking.Let me tell you why women are doing better lately and are likely to take over the world's economy soon. women are very disciplined when it comes to finance, they know their priorities and work accordingly with their scale of preference and forgone alternatives, women are not extravagant, as much as they know how to manage a home, they apply similar method to their income too. It also baffles me to hear some people say "with all these wealth and education who go marry you" and i say "her husband go marry her"this is the dumbest thing I've ever heard, when you have this mindset, it is an early way to not just physical poverty but poverty even in the spirit with a terrible low self esteem leading to destruction and set back, life doesn't begin and end with getting married, fulfillment also count.

God has placed you high he will give you a man equal to you. So dear go get a degree and fix yourself somewhere, start set up a business, your little saving can go a long way, Rome wasn't built on a day you know,don't wait on the likes of chevron,mobile,addax, Halliburton  and so on and please learn to save your money don't go drinking and partying everyday. Then when next you see a successful  young lady you think twice before calling her names.

 Little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest, and poverty will come upon you like a robber, and want like an armed man. A worthless person, a wicked man, goes about with crooked speech. proverbs6:10-12
It is the hard-working farmer who ought to have the first share of crops. 2 timothy 2:6.

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