THE MOOD SETTER
Lovemaking: Romantic se x is 90 percent seduction and 10 percent execution. To set the stage, up the flirting ante a couple of days earlier by being extra affectionate (lots of kissing, exchanging sweet texts) and teasing him in a sensual, not sexual, way—ask him to give you a massage or let your fingers linger on his thigh during a movie—but hold off on actually sealing the deal. The night of, remember that lighting is everything; a soft glow is not only physically flattering, but it also sets a languid tone. Arrange some candles or toss a sheer scarf over your lamp.
F*cking: Let him know you're in the mood to get wicked by dressing in a hot outfit that's totally out of character, from thigh-high boots to Tip tassels. Also, break up the routine by wearing a new perfume or hairstyle. Anything out of the ordinary triggers arousal by awakening his prefrontal cortex, the same spot in the brain that lights up during se x play.
THE KISSING
Lovemaking: It's all about the rhythm, and the key is to go sloooowww. When you're turned on, your movements naturally speed up; taking things down a notch emphasizes the soulfulness of se x, plus it allows your nerve endings to react to the sensation in new, exciting ways. Begin with gentle, sweet pecks on the lips before moving on to deep French kissing.
F*cking: Get a little rough, like holding onto the back of his head as you press his lips into yours and digging your fingernails into his scalp a little, grinding your hips against him while making out, or biting his lower lip.
THE UNDRESSING
Lovemaking: Instead of removing your own clothes, take time undressing one another—undo every button, carefully unzip his pants, have him deliberately unclasp your bra. Kiss and stroke the just-revealed spot before moving on to the next.
F*cking: Channel an untamed vibe by pulling his hair, grabbing his crotch, or having him squeeze your ass as you tear off each other's clothes.
THE PROPS
Lovemaking: To make se x super intimate, focus on magnifying every sensation. A good way to do this is by restricting one sense, which in turn heightens the others. Try playing with blindfolds, taking turns treating the blindfolded person to languorous MouthAction, a massage, or sultry surprises—like him drizzling cold water over your breasts and then slowly licking it up.
F*cking: The options are practically endless. Handcuffs: The sensation of cold metal conveys the ultimate in S&M wickedness. Lock him to the bed, tease him like crazy, and tell him he has to beg for it before you'll set him free. A flogger: Have him (lightly) smack your butt during do ggy-style se x. A video camera: It'll feel like you're making a naughty Indecency. (Afterwards—delete, delete, delete!)
[/b]THE PILLOW TALK[/b]
Lovemaking: Whisper phrases that emphasize your connection. Try, "You're the only one for me," or "I'll never want anyone but you."
F*cking: To underline the carnal aspect of s ex, tell him, "I'm gonna give it to you good."
THE DETAILS
Lovemaking: Many of the lovey-dovey actions couples do during pre-intimacy (stroking each other's face, kissing, holding hands, etc.) fall by the wayside once you're actually getting it on. Incorporating those sweet moves during se x increases intimacy.
F*cking: It's all about letting go of inhibitions, so don't hesitate to touch yourself (hello, multi-orgasm!), stroke his perineum or backdoor, or make some noise.
THE POSITIONS
Lovemaking: Opt for those that maximize body contact, emphasize a rocking motion rather than thrusting, and let you gaze in each other's eyes—like The Soft Rock, The Tight Squeeze, or Straddle His Saddle.
F*cking: Spank Me Maybe offers an opportunity kinky extras like hair pulling and butt smacking; Mission Control is perfect if you're craving some bondage action; Peep Showgives him a naughty view.
THE ORG ASM
Lovemaking: Make your climax more soulful by making eye contact while you come, and breathing slow and deep.
F*cking: Getting messy makes se x feel badass—have him finish on your bre asts; or reach down, touch yourself, and then put your finger inside his mouth.
THE AFTERPLAY
Lovemaking: To maximize post-se x bonding, nothing beats the classic spoon. Get into this cozy position and then match your breath to his.
F*cking: Grab him by the face and say, "That was so hot." Reinforce it with a lusty text later on: You're so good, I'd pay for it.
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