For most women, reaching orga sm during se x is not exactly an easy thing to do. Some women have never reached orga sm during se xual inter course and others rarely do.
As much as a lot of women blame themselves for this situation, it is not their problem at all. Studies and books on successful sexual lives have proved that women have less orga sms than men due to a lot of varying reasons, which ranges from the se xual position to the things done during inter course by both parties.
This goes to say that as much as men easily reach se xual climax, women aren’t built that way and it is very okay to not reach orga sm every other time. It is a natural situation.
Most women however are not pleased with this because some of them want to experience the feeling, some need to make their partners know that they are indeed enjoying the se x and it is just simply frustrating for some not to “cum”.
Some of the ways women can easily reach orga sm however includes; Mas turbation and/ se xual position.
Women who are experienced DYIs know how to fix the vibrator/dildo and how to channel them to pleasure themselves. They know how to orga sm with these se xual toys and what to do to get them there.
These type of women already have half their problems solved because next time they have se x with their partners, they can borrow tips from their DIY sessions and tell their partners where to touch. This would stimulate them and allow them climax.
Another help towards easy climax is the cli toris. Since the cli toris is the most sensitive part of the Va gina and the part that stimulates an easy climax, taking it into consideration might help in your quest on reaching climax easily.
Let your partner stroke the climax, guide him when he’s doing it so he can know how to do it well and how it would yield results. He could do this while thrusting into you, this would stimulate you and guide you to an easy climax.
Some se xual positions that you can also try which would make climax happen or boost the chances includes;
1.CAT
The CAT is the coital adjusted technique. Basically this is a face-to-face position, but the man ‘rides much higher’ than he would in the missionary position so that his shoulders and head are about six inches higher up the bed than normal.
What this means is that his pe nis doesn’t go all the way into the vagina. Instead, the stem or root of it is pulled hard against the cli toris – producing great sensations in that all-important little organ.
The other difference is that instead of taking his weight on his elbows, the man should simply let his bulk slump onto his partner’s upper chest.
2. The free as air position where The man lies down on his back. The woman faces the other way and sits down on his pe nis. Then, in her own time, she gradually lowers herself so that – with his penis inside her – her back is lying fully outstretched on the front of his body.
The woman can feel genuinely weightless and free-as-air – which is quite a novel sensation. Another bonus is that either partner can touch the cli toris easily. So it’s different and fun – and usually a great time is had by all.
3. The Spoon position Finally, ‘the spoons’.
This is the position where you lie on your side and your man lies curled up round your bottom (like spoons in a drawer) and penetrates you from behind.
Lots of women like this, though not all of them find it easy to orga sm on their sides. But the great advantage here is that either partner can reach round and rub the cli toris. Also, neither of you is having to take the weight of the other.
However, have in mind that there’s no right or wrong position to have se x or reach orgasm. You have to find that which works for you.
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