1. Her man’s appearance
Men
are usually considered to be the most turned on by visual stimuli
(think about it: how many strrrp CLUBS and adalt magazines are actually
targeted toward females?), but women are actually quite turned on by a
man’s face, bo dy and movement as well, say M3ston and Bu#s. “s
exu ally, women are attracted to men with masculine features, although
not too masculine,”Meston explains.
“A little light stubble is
usually a turn-on for women if it’s clean and well-kept. bo dy-wise,
women generally find men with a V-shaped torso or a high shoulder-to-hip
ratio s exu ally attractive. Motion is important, too, as women find
athletic prowess and agility to be s ex ual turn-ons.”
The bottom line: If you’d like to get her in the sack, a good first step to take might be getting yourself into the gym.
2. The time of day
Meston
says that women are very individualized in terms of when they most
prefer to get it on: “In general, women want to have s ex when they feel
their best — when they have energy, feel connected to their partners,
aren’t distracted by work or stressful daily events, and when they feel s
exy — and that may or may not be at night.”
In order to
figure out when a woman’s most likely to be in the mood, pay attention
to the times she seems the most energized and/or chilled out.
Try thinking outside the box — you may find that she’d love a post-jog qu1ckie right before her shower!
3. Certain smells
Meston
and Buss explain that, for women, sense of smell is far more important
than it is to men when it comes to s exual attraction. Simply put: if a
woman doesn’t like the way a man smells, it’s often a deal-breaker —
whether she consciously realizes it or not
The
number one turn-off reported by most women is — not surprisingly — bad
breath, says Buss. A woman’s sense of smell also plays an interesting
biological role in what attracts her to a man, according to Meston:
“Olfactory signals provide a woman with a wealth of information about a
man’s health, hygiene, and even his genetic makeup,” she notes.
Pheromones — tiny airborne molecules that humans emit from various
glands in their bo dy — can influence a woman’s desire to be s exu ally
1ntimate with a man.
Male pheromones have been shown to
provide information on a man’s symmetry, which is an indicator of
genetic FITNESS and ultimately can determine whether a man is
genetically compatible with a woman.
“For many
women — whether they realize it or not — scent can play an important
role in determining her willingness to have s ex with a man, given her
‘sense’ of whether they can produce genetically HEALTHY, strong children
together,” says Buss.
4. Her guy’s choice of words
Often,
what a man says is more important than what he does when he’s trying to
get a woman in the mood. “Offering compliments is usually a sure-fire
way of making someone want to get closer… although, if the compliments
come across as insincere, they will actually turn her off,” says Meston.
To
score extra sincerity points, make references to future activities
you’d like to do together, explains Meston, noting that showing signs of
commitment can often be s ex ually alluring to women. Buss also notes
that a man with a sense of humor is also a s ex ual turn-on for the
ladies:
“If a man can make a woman laugh, it
relaxes her and makes her feel that he ‘gets’ her,” he says, adding that
a good sense of humor also conveys some key qualities women want in a
mate: intelligence (it’s hard to be witty if you’re not too bright), the
ability to gauge her emotional and social perspective (a.k.a. having
the mind-reading skills to know what she will find amusing), and social
verve or confidence.
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