So... your man tells you he is not planning on having kids or getting married anytime soon as he is still sorting out his life...he tells you he wants to have his second degree, a proper house and a bigger car first... you sit there smiling with just a birth certificate, thinking you'll be the wife?!
With the little he has, you ask for Brazilian hair and Timberlands. He goes to work and goes straight to class after work. He leaves you in pyjamas and finds you in the same pyjamas. While he studies you watch your favourite TV soaps and series.
He comes back home to find chips and chicken in the microwave everyday. The house is clean and his clothes are ironed. The only serious conversation y'all have is about the type of groceries you guys need. The only advice you give him is 'babe you need to buy new socks, the ones you bought last time are torn' ... nothing intelligent comes out your mouth, no plans of making your own life better.
Yes, you are pretty, no doubt about that! But so is every second girl passing by.
Do you realize something?! You're not doing anything a maid can't do. He's going to finish school and the first thing he's going to do is REPLACE HIS MAID 'cause he can afford to pay for one and have a PROPER WIFE/GF.
That's when we're going to hear your famous words, "I was with him through thick and thin when he had nothing, now that he is successful he thinks I am nothing."
Yes you are right. You've always been NOTHING but a maid to him.
Empower yourself to be the woman your man wants to be with... a woman who would be able to carry the whole family if anything happens to his job or his health!
This gospel needs to be preached to all ladies worldwide. Spread the word.
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