Se*x is
good. Emotionally it is very good and I’ve read in a lot of places that it is
physically good too. That is, good for the health and mind.
What most people do not know however is that, just as we have
unhealthy food that can cause our bodies harm, we have unhealthy se*x that can
cause our minds harm.
Follow me as I list the types of se*x that might do more damage
to your mind than good.
1. Break up se*x- after break up, a lot of emotions are
involved. Whether or not you were the dumper or the dumpee, there are a lot of
things happening at that point. It is usually not the period to make hasty
emotional or se*xual decisions. Yet, a lot of people can’t help but find
themselves in that situation.
What usually happens during this, is that one of the parties always
hopes to bring the other party back with the se*x which never happens. If the
love you used to share didn’t make him/her stay, showing him/her how fantastic
and great you were in bed wouldn’t.
The result of this act is usually a party feeling bad and worse
than he/she felt before the act.
2. Se*x on first date- there is no laid down rule on the number of
weeks or months to wait before deciding to get under the sheets with the new
guy. But as a woman, if you have se*x on the first date simply because you want
him to come back or for some ridiculous reason, then you sure are doing
something unhealthy for yourself, putting yourself in a bad place.
3. Se*x when drunk- Yes it might be so much fun and crazy and
exhilarating but it is also silly, dangerous and extremely stupid especially if
it is someone you just met or someone you haven’t known enough. Anything can go
wrong while having se*x when drunk (I mean not wearing protection, not making
use of your head like you should and so on) and these things you might have to
pay for seriously.
So maybe when next you’re drunk, you can grab your car keys and
head home to end the night.
4. Make up se*x- se*x after a huge fight/disagreement has been
resolved can be so great, so amazing. But se*x every time you disagree or argue
might just be unhealthier than you think. Whenever you both rely on makeup se*x
to fix your relationship issues, great as it may be at the beginning, one of
you would soon begin to feel used and neglected and with time there’ll be
cracks in the relationship
Se*x can’t fix everything. You will need to realise that and fix
your issues yourself.
5. Pity se*x- this is the lamest reason to get down with
anybody. Sleeping with them because you pity them. This happens more to women
and they do it because they want the guy to get off their backs and they give
him what he wants to make him feel better. What about what you feel? Does that
matter at all?
Some women also give out their bodies because the men they are
with has started pressuring them and is threatening to get it somewhere else if
they don’t give in. Another lame reason to have se*x. If all he is about is se*x
then maybe you shouldn’t be in that relationship.
6. Se*x out of duty- this type of se*x refers to sleeping with
your partner when you would rather not simply because it is your duty to do it.
It is very unhealthy. This is because you are doing it as a
chore and not enjoying it as you should. When se*x becomes a chore, it only
means one thing, that you aren’t so excited to be with your partner anymore.
Now this can stem out from a whole lot of things but what can be worse than the
situation is when you constantly do it just because it is what is required of
you.
Talk about it with your partner. Get therapy or counselling if
you have to.
But don’t continue se*x with the person until you are sure you
really want to do it. It’ll only make you feel worse, resent the person more
and make the se*x more unappealing.
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